I HAVE THE RIGHT TO:

_ ask for a date
_ refuse a date
_ suggest activities
_ refuse activities
_ have my own feelings
_ have my limits respected
_ spend my money the way I want to
_ tell my partner I want affection
_ be heard
_ refuse to lend money
_ refuse affection
_ say "NO"
_ a healthy dating relationship

I HAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY TO:

_ determine my limits
_ respect the limits of others
_ communicate clearly and honestly
_ not violate the limits of others
_ be considerate, but not submissive or aggressive

I HAVE THE RIGHT TO TRUST MYSELF ABOVE ALL OTHERS.

London Abused Women's Centre, 2002
Adapted from: This Is It - Teen Acquaintance Rape - Alternatives to Fear